There’s a great story in Jewish and Buddhist circles about the Jewish mother who treks to Thailand in search of a famous guru. After an exhaustive 24 hours of travel, by plane, train, Songthaew and Tuk tuk, she makes it to Wat Arun, the famous temple in Bangkok. An old monk in orange robes opens the door, and the woman promptly requests a meeting with the Master.

The monk explains that this is impossible because the guru is in silent retreat, meditating at Wat Tham Pha Plong, at the top of a mountain in Chiang Dao.

She insists upon seeing him until the monk acquiesces. However, he demands on the following rules: The meeting must be brief, she must bow when addressing the guru, and she can say no more than eight words to him.

The woman agrees, buys a bus ticket and a new pair of comfortable hiking shoes, and sets off on her arduous journey. After a 10-hour bus ride, and 5-hour hike up the mountain, she finally arrives at the temple. Keeping within the eight-word limit in addressing the guru, she breathes in deeply, walks in, bows and says, “Sheldon, it’s your mother. Enough already, come home!”

Yes, it is time to come home.
And there you can find me from May 1st to May 21st.

Now I’m no guru, but I have been able to manifest my dreams of living life on my terms. No alarm clock, traveling light, creating workshops, online positivity training, helping others and appreciating the world.

Your dreams may be different but it would be my honor to help you manifest them by sharing my blueprint that enabled my vision to materialize. Let me help you actualize yours.
It’s simple, takes four minutes a day, and I’m certain you’ll be able to master it. ┬áIf I can, you can.

As Henry David Thoreau said,
“Live the life you have imagined”.

I can help you make that happen.

To set up an individual coaching session with me, email

To attend one of my workshops, see below.

With Much Appreciation,


How I Manifested My Dream Working 4 minutes a Day!

You Can Too!

Wingman Positivity Training Workshop.

Two different nights.

1. Thursday, May 5th, 6:30 – 8:00 pm – Oaklyn, NJ.
2. Monday, May 16th, 6:30 – 8:00 pm – Medford, NJ

Building a positive inner team, your Thoughts, Emotions, Actions and Manifestations, is the most important element to achieving any goal or manifesting any desire. And it requires PRACTICE.

Participants will be directed through a series of practices based on…
1. Shifting cognitions.
2. Neuroscience
3. Lessons learned from my time spent with a Buddhist Zen Master.

Participants have reported feeling…

  • Less anxious and depressed.
  • Better control of their thoughts and emotions.
  • Increased awareness of the frequency they are emitting.
  • More empowered and more focused on their goals.
  • Improved hopefulness of attaining those goals.
  • Expectation of continuing their positivity practices.

Two different workshops…

1. Thursday, May 5th 6:30 – 8:00 pm at Spirit Light Services,
916 White Horse Pike, Oaklyn, NJ 08107.
Register @

2. Monday, May 16th, 6:30 – 8:00 pm at The Center,
Life in Balance, 45 South Main Street Medford, NJ 08055.
Register: Phone: 609-975-8379 or
Please include your name & phone #.

Cost is $30. Email me at

Michael Gross is the owner of Be Your Own Wingman Positivity Training and a Certified Law of Attraction Life Coach. He has coached municipalities, businesses, Miss New Jersey and many others to better achieve their goals.
His “Build Your Inner Team” workshops have helped thousands to see positives instead of negatives, solutions instead of problems, and to focus on what’s going right in their lives and businesses, and build from there.
His “Be Your Own Wingman” concept has been praised by Marc Allen, owner of New World Library, and best selling authors Donald Altman, SARK and Dr. Bernie Siegel.